3 Power Moves To Unlock Confidence

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If you had unlimited confidence, what would you do with it?

Amy would apply for that dream job.

Kerry would move to Europe.

Tina would have the motivation to lose those extra pounds she’s been meaning to lose.

Diane would know how to attract Mr. Right.

Sally would communicate in a charismatic way with men.

Heather would leave the relationship she felt she was settling in

Candice would join that dating site.

Have you thought what you would do if confidence weren’t an issue?

Grab a pen and piece of paper and, I want you to write down three things you would do if confidence weren’t an issue.

Once you have determined why confidence is important to you, your next step is to take action. Here are 3 powerful ways to unlock your internal confidence. 

 1: Adjust your focus 

The only way to change something is to find a solution. If you focus on the problem, you give that issue the momentum to grow in size: more reasons to feel bad, more opportunities to put yourself down, more experiences to fear.

Focusing on solutions instead of problems is one of the best things you can do for your confidence. This is why I love being a coach; we are resolution centered. “I’m unhappy and single!” So how can you solve that? “But I don’t know how to attract a good man!” So how can you solve that? “But I do not know what strategies to use” So what’s the solution? Look at your struggles in life as opportunities? What can help you solve your problem?

2: Practice Gratitude 

I believe the quickest way to get into alignment with your higher powerful woman is to practice gratitude. Appreciation, positivity, and love are equal to alignment, confidence, and happiness. Gratitude is always the opposite of resistance and insecurity, so let appreciation always be your starting point when you are in a negative state or mindset. Make it a point to find things to be thankful for.

3: Empower yourself with knowledge

Knowledge will always equal power, and power always gives you the ability to influence those around you, especially a man. In general, awareness is the key strategy for unlocking your internal confidence because when you know better, you do better, and this is the beauty of knowledge – it’s renewable. Knowledge doesn’t expire– you can use it over and over again. Even if everything else was taken from you, no one can take away your dignity which is supported with confidence, and created through knowledge.

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How to get your Confidence Back

All insecurity and heartbreak come from the loss of power to control your environment and your man that’s in it. As women when we feel that we are losing the love and affection of a man we put all of our energy into two tactics. Trying to ”fix” the situation by being overly nice, promising to be better and going out of our way to make him happy or we try “force” his attention by unintentionally creating drama, fights, threats or guilt trips. In actual fact, the best approach is to redirect all the attention you were giving him back on to you. When we spend all our energy trying to perfect our external circumstance we are putting all of our focus on the wrong thing. You see when a woman has her own interests and appears to have self-confidence without his input, she automatically remains a challenge for the man. You should never have to try to convince him that you should be together. He needs to be able to view you as his prize. Sometimes it is hard to love and believe in ourselves but self-confidence is the one quality you MUST master in order to keep a man’s interest. Only a small percentage of women know how to tap into their own power and you now have the opportunity to harness this crucial information for yourself! Using these 30-day workbook journals will help you utilize your time in a constructive way. These workbooks give you the tools needed to help you develop into the best version of yourself. You can receive all the workbooks instantly and get started on getting your confidence back right now. You will find that the more confident you become the more his interest in you will grow. It is actually that simple. The journals give you hundreds of strategies to improve your relationship with  yourself and the life you are living. If you would like to get your confidence back,  get your downloadable workbooks by clicking HERE Get all your worksheets instantly!  The only way to get different results is to try something different and if not now, when?

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Leandra

• Need help getting the upper hand?
• Do you want to drastically improve the chance of him chasing after you again?
• Do you want him to second guess his decision that got you to this place?
• Do you want to get your power back for good?

Contact me at leandra@thisgirlsgotgame.biz to help you with effective advice, 1-2-1 coaching, and support.